I love singing to little man. Most of the time, he loves it, too. However, recently, my choice of songs seem to have been hit and miss…
A couple weeks ago, I was singing an old LDS children’s song, “I Hope They Call Me On a Mission.” I don’t know if it’s sung as much as when I was in primary (the LDS children’s Sunday School), but it’s an old favorite of mine. For those not familiar, the lyrics to the first verse are:
I hope they call me on a mission
When I have grown a foot or two.
By then, I hope I will be ready
To teach and preach and work like missionaries do.
As I was nursing little man, I was looking through the LDS children’s song book, found this song, and started singing. Suddenly, little man stopped nursing, looked at me, and starting pouting! I chuckled, stopped singing, and he went back to nursing. I started singing again, and, again, he stopped, looked at me, and got tears in his eyes! I couldn’t believe it – he’d NEVER reacted like that to a song! I called for Rich to come watch, because that’s what any parent would do…laugh at their child crying when a particular song is sung… Little man had gone back to nursing while I wasn’t singing. I explained to Rich what was going on, and tried singing the song one more time. Sure enough — little man stopped nursing, looked at me, pouted, and started crying!
The curious part of me tried it again a few days later, just to see if he’d still react the same way — he didn’t. I figure he warmed up to the idea of a mission later in life…
Another time, I was playing Frank Sinatra tunes on the piano and singing along…and he got fussy! He’s become fussy before when I was playing — if I’m sight-reading and stumbling through a song a bit, he occasionally gets a little fussy until I get to a different song that goes a bit smoother. But the Sinatra reaction was a bit surprising. I switched to a little Nat King Cole, and he was happy! He’s listened to Sinatra with daddy before, but I guess he just wasn’t in the mood for it that particular day!
Then last night, as I was rocking little man to sleep, I was humming various songs – LDS children’s songs and some LDS hymns. I decided to actually sing some of the words to the songs, and little man stopped nursing, pouted, and got teary again! I went back to humming, and he was content. Of course, I was curious again what the trigger for the tears was…turns out it was the words – to any song! As long as I hummed a tune, he was fine, but the moment I started singing the words to whatever I’d been humming, he started getting teary-eyed! So he got hummed to instead of sung to…after I laughed at his pickiness, of course!
I thought we weren’t allowed to run experiments on the baby?
That is soooo interesting! Maybe his fear isn’t about the mission, but he fears he never will grow a foot or two.
lol! You guys always have great stories!
He just wants his Lady Gaga